Discreet Online Dating

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Looking for a good online dating site to meet singles in California. Preferably a free one. Anyone have success with any?
Thanks im going to try- http://www.jsp.name/meetsinglesincali

its free and you can search locally.

Has anyone tried the yahoo personals online dating site? If so is it any good and what should you watch out for? I have briefly looked through some of the matches and some of them seem a little too good. Any advice would be helpful before I give it a try;-)

OK so I’ve used quite a few online dating sites with no success. I’m lonely and haven’t been on a date for quite some time now. I’ve been trying to hook up with women online but I never get a response from the women I send out messages to on the internet dating sites. I’m beginning to think the whole internet dating thing is a scam and actually doesn’t work. So has anyone used any dating website that has actually yielded good results for them? Thanks.

Does anyone else share this opinion of online dating. I am an attractive 22 year old woman who has been dating online for the past few months. I have been on quite a few dates and get quite a few emails. Out of ten emails I might respond to one. I just find that there is something missisng with online dating and am wondering if anyone else feels the same way. I feel that any guy I choose will be the same guy every girl chooses because of looks, success, whatever so when I go out with an attractive guy online I feel like I am his 11th date of the day and in competition with every other girl on the site. I know this might be true in real life dating too but I think this feeling is magnified with online dating. When I do go out with a guy more than once I get the feeling like it is only a matter of time before another online girl comes along. I am also getting the feeling that any attractive guy on there is only looking for quick sex.
The whole thing is just strange and I’m finding it difficult to really keep any lasting connections because I have no connection whatsoever to these guys in real life. I feel like online dating would work if I was ok dating unattractive men but because I’m attractive I am looking for an attractive guy. Is this making sense to anyone? Does anyone else feel this way? I want to hear others experiences / opinions.

I was just wondering if it was worth the money to try. If you have a membership, can you e-mail anyone and they can e-mail you back even if they don’t have a paid account? I’d hate to see a girl I’d really like to meet with no way to have them get in touch with me…

Recently I found my husband searching online personals and he had profiles that said he was “unhappy in his marriage looking for something discreet on the side” and when I confronted him he said that he was just looking at pictures and he never even spoke to anyone or went any further than looking. I told him I don’t care that he looks but I don’t understand why he makes profiles that are so realistic and keeps looking for local women if he’s just looking at pictures. Does anyone know of a way I can check up on his story without him knowing or any suggestions on what I should do. I can’t talk to any of my friends or family about this because I promised my husband I wouldn’t and they would confront him if they knew. Please help!
since I confronted him he deleted all of the profiles I found and I don’t know which services he is using now to create my own profile at.
We have two children and I am 7 months pregnant with number three.

Does anyone have any general knowledge or statistics on this? I’m wondering just how strong a committed relationship or marriage can be going forward when they began as an extramarital affair. It would seem to me that whether one or both has been deceitful with their own spouses during the affair, they can’t very well trust one another afterward. Also, does not the lingering guilt make the new relationship have a strike against it from the start. I can’t imagine being very happy knowing I’d taken someone away from their family for my own selfish needs. But maybe that’s just me.